Relationship/ Couples
Coaching
“If you want to achieve peace in the face of your problems, you must understand why you perceive a particular situation a problem.”
Michael Singer
If you and your spouse/partner have talked seriously about divorce or separation, relationship coaching can help you come through crisis and move into a new phase in your relationship. Relationship coaching is an ongoing, longer-term process for couples who have many trigger points, and who move into fight, flight, or freeze very quickly. You may feel that you have irreconcilable differences, when in reality you may just need some skills to help you navigate conflict.
- A.D. 2023
“I wanted to take a moment to express my appreciation for your invaluable support and guidance throughout the past eight months. During our time together, you have shown an exceptional level of expertise and provided me with much-needed guidance. Read More Your ability to navigate the complexities of divorce proceedings has been instrumental in helping me understand the process and make informed decisions. I am truly grateful for your efforts in facilitating productive discussions between my husband and me. Your professionalism and dedication were unwavering. Despite the challenges and frustrations that arose, you consistently demonstrated a deep understanding of the emotions involved and offered guidance that allowed me to approach the situation with a level head. Your ability to create a safe and constructive environment for communication was truly commendable. Despite the difficulties, you encouraged respectful discussions and helped us maintain a sense of civility during this emotionally charged time. Your efforts undoubtedly made a positive impact on the overall process. I want to thank you for your guidance and support during this challenging period of my life. Your expertise and dedication have been invaluable, and I am truly grateful for the role you played as my mediator. Wishing you continued success in your future endeavors, and I hope our paths cross again under more favorable circumstances.” Read Less
- M.E. 2018
“Belinda is an incredible mediator. She is caring and compassionate, and and excellent communicator. She helped us both to better hear and understand each other through the more difficult parts of our separation. Read More She was very skilled at always bringing us back to what was most important- our commitment to remain great co-parents to our son. She helped us come up with creative solutions that helped meet both of our needs. We feel that we are able to more forward with dignity and respect, and to maintain a relationship that puts our son securely at the center. We will forever be grateful to Belinda for gently guiding us through this life change with her steadfast calm and commitment to a peaceful process and resolution.” Read Less
–R.M. 2018
“Belinda as a mediator was caring, good listener, and skilled in the sensitivity split marriage transition. She contributed with alternative solutions that helped us see our lives during separation in positive way, that brought us closer in other ways, Read More for which I’m very grateful.” “Belinda as a mediator was caring, good listener, and skilled in the sensitivity split marriage transition. She contributed with alternative solutions that helped us see our lives during separation in positive way, that brought us closer in other ways, for which I’m very grateful.” Read Less
–J.T.S. 2018
“Working with Belinda brought so much relief to the process of separating from my partner. With her expertise, spiritual foundation and heart-felt containment we were able to bring our needs to the table, Read More and come up with a parenting plan & custody agreement that supported us both! I highly recommend Belinda to anyone who is looking for depth, generosity and someone who is truly on your team as you begin the journey of “consciously uncoupling.” Read Less
–M.F. 2017
“I wanted to send you a heartfelt thank you with much gratitude. Here’s why-next weekend I will be attending my ex-husband’s wedding…..and it seems we’ve come full circle. He’s truly one of my best friends and I’m happy for him. Read More My boys are the best men and they’re so happy that I will be there. They don’t know anything different than their parents as 2 people who love them to the end of the earth and also happen to be best friends (and are just not married). Teachers get confused because we do everything together, they assume we’re married and I’ve had feedback from numerous teachers that neither of my boys exhibit any signs of coming from a divorced home. I believe our work with you allowed us to let go of ego and move through this process of life with dignity and grace. I will always be truly grateful that you were placed in my life. You are a special person and I hope you know how you touch people.” Read Less
- A.D. 2023
“I wanted to take a moment to express my appreciation for your invaluable support and guidance throughout the past eight months. During our time together, you have shown an exceptional level of expertise and provided me with much-needed guidance. Your ability to navigate the complexities of divorce proceedings has been instrumental in helping me understand the process and make informed decisions. I am truly grateful for your efforts in facilitating productive discussions between my husband and me. Your professionalism and dedication were unwavering. Despite the challenges and frustrations that arose, you consistently demonstrated a deep understanding of the emotions involved and offered guidance that allowed me to approach the situation with a level head. Your ability to create a safe and constructive environment for communication was truly commendable. Despite the difficulties, you encouraged respectful discussions and helped us maintain a sense of civility during this emotionally charged time. Your efforts undoubtedly made a positive impact on the overall process. I want to thank you for your guidance and support during this challenging period of my life. Your expertise and dedication have been invaluable, and I am truly grateful for the role you played as my mediator. Wishing you continued success in your future endeavors, and I hope our paths cross again under more favorable circumstances.”
- M.E. 2018
“Belinda is an incredible mediator. She is caring and compassionate, and and excellent communicator. She helped us both to better hear and understand each other through the more difficult parts of our separation. She was very skilled at always bringing us back to what was most important- our commitment to remain great co-parents to our son. She helped us come up with creative solutions that helped meet both of our needs. We feel that we are able to more forward with dignity and respect, and to maintain a relationship that puts our son securely at the center. We will forever be grateful to Belinda for gently guiding us through this life change with her steadfast calm and commitment to a peaceful process and resolution.”
–R.M. 2018
“Belinda as a mediator was caring, good listener, and skilled in the sensitivity split marriage transition. She contributed with alternative solutions that helped us see our lives during separation in positive way, that brought us closer in other ways, for which I’m very grateful.” “Belinda as a mediator was caring, good listener, and skilled in the sensitivity split marriage transition. She contributed with alternative solutions that helped us see our lives during separation in positive way, that brought us closer in other ways, for which I’m very grateful.”
–J.T.S. 2018
“Working with Belinda brought so much relief to the process of separating from my partner. With her expertise, spiritual foundation and heart-felt containment we were able to bring our needs to the table, and come up with a parenting plan & custody agreement that supported us both! I highly recommend Belinda to anyone who is looking for depth, generosity and someone who is truly on your team as you begin the journey of “consciously uncoupling.”
–K.H. 2018
“Working with Belinda is ALWAYS a wonderful experience and creates tremendous opportunities for deepening into myself and great personal growth. Amazing on so many levels for a myriad of reasons!”
–M.F. 2017
“I wanted to send you a heartfelt thank you with much gratitude. Here’s why-next weekend I will be attending my ex-husband’s wedding…..and it seems we’ve come full circle. He’s truly one of my best friends and I’m happy for him. My boys are the best men and they’re so happy that I will be there. They don’t know anything different than their parents as 2 people who love them to the end of the earth and also happen to be best friends (and are just not married). Teachers get confused because we do everything together, they assume we’re married and I’ve had feedback from numerous teachers that neither of my boys exhibit any signs of coming from a divorced home. I believe our work with you allowed us to let go of ego and move through this process of life with dignity and grace. I will always be truly grateful that you were placed in my life. You are a special person and I hope you know how you touch people.”
Ready to Get Started?
I am excellent in helping people through transitions because I love this work. And I love this work because within transitional periods there lies the possibility of great awareness, learning, and healing.